>Subtle patterns are still patterns. It's not fair to treat somebody like they are abusive when they're not, but it's not fair to yourself to stay somewhere that makes you feel abused.
>You don't have to be an abusive person to make somebody else feel abused. Some aspects of abuse are just aspects of being different people.
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Date: 2012-01-07 12:52 am (UTC)>You don't have to be an abusive person to make somebody else feel abused. Some aspects of abuse are just aspects of being different people.
...yeah...